To give a synopsis on
my morning today, I take a look at Facebook, and I stumble across a source
posted by one of my more politically-driven friends. For confidentiality, we
will call her Nancy (yes, as in Nancy Reagan). After posting an article for her
viewers to read, one of her followers begins to personally attack her
politically and personally. We shall call this person Doyle. Doyle gets a
response from Yours Truly, telling him that he is a bully and how my wife and I
feel sorry for him. His response was that I needed to “grow some thicker skin.”
Now, to digress for a
second, you may realize that my last post was about being conflicted about
seeking justice or finding refuge, and a little bit of bullying thrown into the
pot. “I tremble for my country when I reflect that God is just,” Thomas
Jefferson stated in his 1781 Notes on the State of Virginia. Time Magazine put
it this way: “Jefferson was aware of the dichotomy between his idealistic words
and the brutalities of slavery.” This is a true correspondence to my inner
thoughts on when to defend someone, or what battles I choose to engage in.
However, today I did not even think twice! Now, that is not to say that Nancy
needed defending (which she didn’t), but I fully intended to extinguish any
doubt in her mind who would stand with her and who wouldn’t.
Now, back to the skin
thing, I could easily have exploded on this guy and used the following verse
from Matthew 10:28, “And fear not them that kill the body, but are not able to
kill the soul.” But instead, I ‘liked’ his post saying that I was an idiot and
exited the conversation. Also, I hope the reader will believe me when I say
that I did exit in an attempt to be a catalyst for Nancy to re-enter the debate
(if you can even call it that at this point). Suffice to say, Nancy got back
on, thanked me and my wife and continued to question Doyle’s motives.
Conclusion: I am more concerned about the status of my soul than the “thickness
of my skin.” I also could have used a tactic I heard Neal Boortz use once on a
caller who wanted to voice her opinion about President Obama. He asked her
these questions:
Name your two U.S.
State Senators. (Don’t Know)
Name the 3 Branches of
Federal Government. (Don’t Know)
Name your State
Governor. (Don’t Know) GOODBYE!!
…I could have asked him
3 questions myself to see if I should even waste my breath on this guy, which
would have been:
Have you put your money
where your mouth is and joined a branch of the military? (According to his
Facebook page, that would be a no.)
Are you married?
(According to his status on Facebook, that would be a no.)
Do you have a job?
(According to the lack of information on his Facebook page again, that could
POSSIBLY be a no.)…That would be grounds for, “Doyle, don’t even open your
pie-hole. Get back to me when you accomplish 2 out of the 3 at a minimum.”
…But, I chose not to
engage in this battle any further.
Now, getting back to
the topic of Nancy… I have always worried about her being as heavily involved
in politics as she is. She has all the good intentions, but there is a ‘disease’
in that cesspool called Local, State, and Federal Government. Yet, as of late I
stumbled across something that challenged my thinking. “Perhaps the most
dangerous place for a Christian to be is in safety and comfort,” Shane
Claiborne says in his book, The Irresistible Revolution. Wow, maybe my
well-intentioned concern is not as well-founded as I have convinced myself over
and over again to be. Matthew 5:46-47 states, “For if ye love them that love
you, what reward have ye? Do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute
your brethren only, what do ye more than others? Do not even the publicans so?”
Just to clarify: during Bible history, publicans were freelance tax collectors
who operated in their own districts amongst locals. Nancy continuously steps
into the lion’s den with dignity, courage and an open mind. Pretty powerful
tools for such a ruthless profession! John 15:18 says, “If the world hates you,
ye know that it hated Me before it hated you.” Also, John 16:33 says, “These
things I have spoken unto you, that in Me ye might have peace. In the world ye
shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer: I have overcome the world.”
To close on a lighter
note, I will use one of my favorite quotes of all time. Linus Van Pelt once
said, “There are three things that I have learned never to discuss with people:
religion, politics and the Great Pumpkin.” Have a great week, friends and
fellow bloggers!
A few words I live by: never argue with an idiot.. They will lower you to their level and beat you with experience.
ReplyDeletebullying roots from poor self esteem and lack of attention; I believe. And since we all have the freedom of expression and beliefs, attacking her was a sad way of getting her attention... Maybe he likes her!?
Anywho its good that u ended the debate before he resorted to an exchange of ugly words. Next time a friend is criticized online; comment words of support to her and ignore his criticism..... That will surely grind his gears!!! Lol